Master The Refusal Of Etiquette

In general, rejection should be decisive and not ambiguous.

In terms of language skills, there are four ways of refusal: direct refusal, euphemism, silence refusal, avoidance and rejection.

To refuse directly is to say clearly the meaning of refusal.

The importance of this method is to avoid rigid attitude and bad language.

In general, direct rejection of others requires the reason for rejection.

If possible, you can also express your gratitude to the other side, expressing your understanding of your kindness to show you are reasonable.

Some people are not rational enough to ignore the excuse for refusing.

If you are giving away your cash as a gift, you can not accept it according to the rules, but you can not ask the other party unreasonably.

Euphemism is to express rejection in mild and tortuous language.

Compared with direct refusal, it is more acceptable.

Because to a large extent, it takes care of the dignity of the rejected.

For example, a gentleman gave underwear to a lady in general.

If the lady retorted, "did you buy it for your mother?" it turned into a bitch.

Rather than politely refuse, say, "it's beautiful.

But this style of my boyfriend has bought several pieces for me. I'll leave them to your girlfriend.

In other words, it implies that he has already known the "famous flower owner" and reminds the other person to pay attention to propriety.

Silence refuses, in the face of difficult questions, temporarily suspend "speeches" without saying a word.

When other people's problems are very difficult or even provocative or insulting, they can be immobiliated by silence, silent and quiet.

This refusal to say "no" is often expressed in a strong psychological deterrent.

Although the effect of silence refusal is obvious, if it is not used properly, it will inevitably hurt people. So we can try to avoid and do not answer, "Wang Gu left and right sides of him", that is, "evade rejection".