Shocking! A Daughter Hates Her Mother'S Story: Wake Up Millions Of Parents.

A mother loves her daughter very much. In order to let her daughter have a good future, she treats her daughter very hard and pays a lot.

After the birth of her daughter, she often reads Tang, song and Ci and plays English to her daughter, whether she understands or doesn't understand.

The daughter is also very contented. When she is 2 years old, she will recite Yueyang Tower notes. At the age of three, she can speak thousands of words, "Na Zha makes the sea". When she was four years old, she unlocked nine serial links.

However, this mother was very modest. Whenever she came to her home, her mother beckoned her daughter to recite in front of the guests, and received praise and praise from others. Her mother was very proud but humbly said to others, "it's nothing. It's so big that I have to feed, go to the bathroom, and I wipe my butt, useless things!" the little girl stares silently and approaches the room silently.

When her daughter went to primary school, she studied very well. She was the first in every examination. But whenever her relatives and friends praised the little girl, the mother always thought of all kinds of things and said that her daughter could not do that. That would not be enough. She taunts and belittled the children, but then she listened to others with elation.

The little girl grew up day by day, but she became more and more aware of others' comments and was sensitive to other people's words. She was always afraid that if she did not do well, others would think of her.

She built her own value judgement on others' evaluation. She lived for others, not for herself.

I don't know when she hated her mother because she suddenly felt that she had never praised herself.

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When I write here, I suddenly think of a story like this:

A little girl was excluded from the choir by the teacher because she could not control her trill.

The little girl hid in the park and weep bitterly.

She thought, "why can't I sing?" when I thought about it, the little girl sang in a low voice, "well sung!" then came the voice, "thank you."

You have given me a pleasant afternoon. "

The little girl was shocked. He was talking about an old man with white hair. When he finished, he stood up and walked alone.

When the little girl went back second days, the old man was still sitting in the original position. The little girl sang again, and the old man listened attentively, with a look of intoxication. So, after many years, the little girl became a famous singer.

She could not forget the kind old man in the park chair.

One day, she went to the park to find the old man, but there was only a lonely long chair.

The insider told her, "the old man has died, he has been deaf for twenty years."

The girl was shocked.

The old man who listens attentively to a little girl singing and praises her is a deaf person.

Most foreign parents do not lack praise for their children. Most of their children are generous and confident.

Psychologist William James once said: "the deepest need of human nature is the desire to be appreciated and praised by others."

Growing children have sensitive hearts, appreciation and encouragement are particularly important.

A word, a hand, a look, a smile, every detail in the parents' life can convey the appreciation signal to the child.

So, dear parents, treat children.

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