There Is A Kind Of Respect: "Tight Lipped".

Some people are unstable. When they are treated with hospitality, they often pour out their hearts. Especially after drinking and eating, they are most likely to tell the truth: "we have friends for a long time, and I have nothing to keep with you today. I told you all, you must never tell anyone else!"

As the saying goes, "if a secret comes out of its mouth, it will be out of the door. It will be everywhere in the world." So, after two or three days, the friend played the same play in front of others. Such a failure to keep secrets will only completely disappoint those who trust themselves. Therefore, we must keep our secrets to others.

Once a person applied for a job in a multinational company, there were many job seekers. Interview round After that, I entered the written examination.

These questions are not difficult for him. He writes quickly, but is stumped by the last question. The title is: "please write down the secrets of the company you worked for before, the more the better."

He looked around and found everyone else writing. He thought to himself and took the paper to the examiner and said, "sorry, I can't answer this question. Even my former company, I have an obligation to keep a secret."

After that, he left the examination room.

On the second day, he received the employment notice of the enterprise. The boss wrote at the end of the notice: "people who have good professional ethics and who know how to keep secrets are exactly what we need."

So Know how to respect others People will win the respect of others. At any time, people who keep secrets can be reused and win the trust of others.

In addition, some things, even if not secret, should be kept as confidential as possible for themselves and others.

First, "hide your merits and virtues".

Even though I have many merits, I can not exaggerate and show off how great I am. If I declare my merit, it is mostly my slow appearance. Others may not have confidence in you, but there will be various kinds of thoughts.

Two, "the fault of concealed others".

We sometimes dislike others because Self cultivation Not enough. In fact, we may be unhappy when others say our mistakes. They say they are unhappy in the face. They are unhappy behind their back. They do not want to eat for two or three days. So why do you like to talk about others' faults?

Three, the secret future plan.

Before the plan has been implemented, it is easy to meet the pretext of spreading rumors and abort halfway. Everything is Impermanence in the world, so if you don't have a firm grasp of your work, you'd better not talk about it everywhere.